Valentine's Day alone

Step One: It is okay to be alone. Remember that Valentine's Day is a largely commercial holiday, and being single on this one day is not a reflection of how loved you may be.

Step Two: Make the day special for you. Valentine's Day is about love after all, so think about what it is you really want and treat yourself to something good. Valentine's Day is an excellent day to show yourself that you matter.

Step Three: Realize that you are not alone. There are millions of people alone on Valentine's Day. You are one of the majority, even if all your friends are hooked up. Remember that after Valentine's Day is over they will be back having the same relationship issues and difficulties they had before.

Step Four: Get real. Relationships are hard work, and can be a pain in the butt. You are far better off taking it slow and waiting for the right person than rushing headlong into the arms of anyone with a box of candy.

Step Five: Have some fun with your other single friends. Rent movies and get takeout food, go to a nightclub, or have dinner together at a nice restaurant. Call it an "Un-Valentine" party if you like.